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Blue Crab Boy

1 Oct

Blue crab was the catch of the day, and the 10-year-old fisherboy was happy. What a relief. I thought he might be disappointed since he’s been catching whopper Reds the past few weeks, but the guy was OK with the 17 beauties he brought home. Might have had something to do with the new crab trap he took on the trip (even though he hooked most with his fishing pole) or the fact that a friend who shared the waters this afternoon donated all of his crabs to our family cooler.

It could have been the overall winning spirit that ended the day. Today was the Suwannee River Take a Kid Fishing Tournament, you see, and along with a bucket full of Blues, Joey scored a trophy, some McDonalds gift dollars (this alone is enough to perk the boy right up), an oyster knife, some artificial bait, bug spray, even a red Coleman cooler.

Mostly, it was probably just the fishing that did the trick — not the trap, the crabs, the goodies and the gear. He really only wants some water, a pole, and a day with Dad, all of which he got today. It’s what makes him truly happy. And yea, the big scores don’t hurt either.

Recipe for Boy Bash

20 Aug

 

Last night, we had a boy bash — an end-of-summer, back-to-school sorta celebration. It was a blast, and if you want to whip one up, we suggest this recipe (adapt as you wish):

  • 1 backyard
  • 1 basketball court
  • bunches of basketballs
  • 1 tree swing
  • 1 pull-up bar
  • 1 roaring fire
  • 1 dad to supervise fire (and simultaneously referee basketball games)
  • lots of roasting sticks (store-bought or plucked from the yard)
  • 1 box graham crackers (pre-divided into manageable parts, if time permits)
  • 2 packages 6-pack Hershey’s chocolate (pre-divided, if time permits)
  • 1 package marshmallows
  • 1 watermelon, cut into small triangle pieces
  • 1 cooler, filled with drinks and ice (and quick access to a bathroom)
  • 1 electronic device to play boy-chosen playlist
  • a few headlamps and flashlights
  • 1 container wet wipes
  • 1 trash can
  • 10 boys
  • a few parents sprinkled here and there

Supply all ingredients and allow boys to mix as appropriate.

Let simmer for 2.5 hours, allow to get dark, and only interfere if comes to a boil.

Intended end result: high level of activity, loads of laughter, sweaty shirts and heads, and begging and pleading to the tune of, “But I don’t waaaaaant to go home!”

Berry Boys

10 May

Today, we picked blueberries.

Tomorrow, and for many days thereafter, we will eat blueberries.

Boy and His Baby Blues

12 Feb

When shooting an airsoft gun, always wear eye protection. Ear folding optional.

Piano Boy

26 Sep

There once was a boy who attended a piano workshop. He wasn’t sure piano was what he wanted to pursue, but he faithfully showed up (OK, that’s because I made him get in the car and drive to the elementary school where classes were held), and he plugged away at the lessons. Twice a week he went back, and on all the other days, he practiced. He did well, and somewhere during the course of his eight-week study, he started enjoying what he was doing. So did his brother, who glared at me from a bench on day No. 1, angry I was forcing him into this activity.
It’s been nearly four months since that first lesson, and for two of those months, the boy and his brother have been taking private lessons from the man who taught the workshop. He tells me he’s impressed with what he hears, and I am, too. What charms me most is that this boy, who would have rather been perched in front of a computer screen instead of learning to read music this summer, seems so natural at the keyboard. His little fingers know right where to go, he sways a bit to the sounds he creates, and much of the time, he doesn’t even look at his music book. Once he learns the song, it’s in his head, and he can crank it out on command. This skill — the memorizing of songs — has earned the boy double stickers on some lesson days, and he has collected 12 in all. This week, he turns them in for a prize. We don’t know yet what it will be (he’s secretly hoping it’s the adorable puppy that lives at the teacher’s house!), but on Wednesday, we will find out. We’ll also find out how well he does on this-week’s songs. I’m betting he rattles off some beauties, and I’m pretty sure another two stickers will be awarded.
Way to play, Danny!

A boy and his piano

A boy and his piano

There once was a boy who attended a piano workshop. He wasn’t sure it was the instrument he wanted to pursue, but he faithfully showed up, and he plugged away at the lessons. Twice a week he went back, and on all the other days, he practiced. He did well, and somewhere during the course of his study, he started enjoying what he was doing. So did his brother, who glared at his mom from a bench on day No. 1, angry she was forcing him into this activity.

It’s been nearly four months since that first lesson, and for two of those months, the boy and his brother have been taking private lessons from the man who taught the workshop. He says he’s impressed with what he hears, and so is the mom. What charms her most is that this boy, who would have rather been perched in front of a computer screen instead of learning to read music this summer, seems so natural at the keyboard. His little fingers know right where to go, he sways a bit to the sounds he creates, and much of the time, he doesn’t even look at his music book. Once he learns the song, it’s in his head, and he can crank it out on command. This skill — the memorizing of songs — has earned the boy double stickers on some lesson days, and he has collected 12 in all. This week, he turns them in for a prize. He doesn’t know yet what it will be (he’s secretly hoping it’s the adorable puppy living at the teacher’s house!), but on Wednesday, he will find out. He’ll also find out how well he does on this-week’s songs. Mom is betting he rattles off some beauties, and it’s pretty possible another two stickers will be awarded.

Way to play, Danny! You make your momma proud!

Things We Do, 2/14/10

26 Feb

We hike

We hike, we hang, we are one with nature

We talk on the phone

and the cell phone